How And When to Take a Walk!

Written by on August 4, 2017

Women who get played by men aren’t “dumb” or “inexperienced”, smart men get played all the time… and not because the guy is bright or smooth…but because his bullsh*t story has enough tangible possibilities for it to be believable. However, these “guy players” aren’t useless men…  They watch and wait – predators of a sort – they fill a specific need that a woman is looking for. And meet just any need….a love need she really wants filled: Sex affection, Security affection, Freedom, Embrace, Money e.t.c.

Once that need begins to be filled, she starts ignoring the glaring red flags of his other behavior and because his romantic repertoire is meager (at best), he begins dripping back and/or not fulfilling her other critical wants/needs…but her initial core need is being met.

Now you can sense that this relationship isn’t futuristic, but how do you take a decision??

How do you make up your mind to let him/her go and move on??

That’s where WittySally comes to play, to assist/supportort in whatever decision you take……

When someone treats you like you’re just one of their many options, my darlings, help them narrow their choice by simply removing yourself from that equation. Sometimes you have got to try not to care as much as it hurts. Know your value either as a male or female, and don’t go for anything less than the standard you have already set for yourself.

“Marriage isn’t a do or die affair” Happiness is the keyword, make a healthy choice, which is to be happy…


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  1. Okechukwu Chike   On   November 3, 2017 at 11:46 am

    Yes o really insightful. Marriage is not do or die. Happiness is key. Don’t go in and endure, we should enjoy. 07036987768. Opara Okechukwu

  2. Ibrahim Rasheed   On   November 3, 2017 at 11:46 am

    There’s actually no two ways about it, if she stops doing what she does before that makes me happy it means something is wrong and we need to sit and talk about it. If we can work our way around it, fine but if we cant, then we can as well go our separate ways.

    Ibrahim Rasheed

  3. Damilola   On   November 3, 2017 at 12:49 pm

    This could be challenging but this is helpful as walking away could help both parties get better and discover oneself.

  4. wendy   On   November 3, 2017 at 3:13 pm

    Walking away can be very challenging because it takes a highly decisive person to be swift at it. Nice article wittysally 08089956910

  5. Sunday   On   April 11, 2018 at 12:01 pm

    Thank you for this wonderful piece….. God enrich you bountifully.
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  6. Olorunimbe Latifat   On   April 11, 2018 at 12:26 pm

    And thats why i dont like forcing myself on people especially when i know i’m becoming a burden to them

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