Written by on October 20, 2017

The discussion about friendship with opposite sex while married has been a hot topic. Do you trust your man enough to allow him have friends of the opposite sex? Do you think it is okay for your woman to have friends of the opposite sex? Several views have been dropped as to whether this is morally okay or if it would possess threat to the marriage. Recently, a married husband said,
“Before I got married, I explained to my wife that I have a lot female friends but you can trust that nothing would happen. Initially, she was jealous but she was soon to adapt because she trusts me and she has male friends but I do not complain. So we have a mutual understanding”
However, in the real sense, problems begin to arise when a spouse begins to pay more attention to the friend. And in most cases, people choose those they are really comfortable with as friends and so when the partner begins to complain, it is possible that the spouse feels that way.
Although it works for him, it does not guarantee that it would work for every other person. A woman said “I already told my husband  that I would not allow such” With these comments, we come to a conclusion that it depends on their ability to communicate.

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  1. Nkem   On   October 24, 2017 at 12:59 pm

    Never! Why should I allow such, I am a very jealous and highly temperamental person, so I will never allow it.

  2. Zeal   On   November 20, 2017 at 4:08 pm

    Well, i don’t see anything wrong with this, as long as we share the same spiritual values, have self-control and we are disciplined. I trust my wife and she trusts me equally.

  3. Bisi   On   November 23, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    I am more than a friend to him why would he need a female friend to be his shoulder! What of my own shoulder?

  4. Philomena   On   November 28, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    Men are not to be trusted! Just like it is in the nature of a dog to bark that is how it is in the nature of men to cheat.

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