Love has a tendency of sweeping many people off their feet. However, with that push of emotion, physical attraction and connection red flags are usually overlooked. The result of this is a broken heart.
Someone who is genuinely into you will make you a priority… beyond just the words. Sex is great but a REAL relationship needs more than just physical time together. Hot and cold behaviour doesn’t work …. <except> for him. Instead of trying to adjust yourself and in expectations (over and over again) for someone who will/who is constantly changing the game, you need to make a clean, experienced decision that you will not settle for anyone’s second best approach to being involved with you in any capacity.
You are worth more than the way you are been treated and you need to stop settling for it and tolerating it. Tell him what you want …….if he doesn’t come correct, you are either been played or he isn’t for you. Either way: “MOVE ON”.