True Love in marriage and relationship should be able to accommodate a lot. Time shared with the one who truly loves you on a daily basis should contribute to your growth intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and even financially.
Believe me breaking up has its own challenges. Nobody ever said it was going to be easy. Having the courage to tell your partner that your calling it quits honestly is a major challenge.
Seriously my darlyns how much can we really take? How much tolerant can u be just because you need to keep a relationship, marriage to work? You know, what I think we need to do is to just OVERLOOK:
Women who get played by men aren’t “dumb” or “inexperienced” smart men get played all the time…
Its ok: – Most of us are programmed culturally, religiously or otherwise with the knack and the desire to please, the desire to satisfy and meet every demand often to our own detriment.
Someone who is genuinely into you will make you a priority… beyond just the words. Sex is great but a REAL relationship needs more than just physical time together. Hot and cold behaviour doesn’t work ….
When someone treats you like you’re just one of their many options, my darlings, help them narrow their choice by simply removing yourself from that equation. Sometimes you have got to try not to care as much as it hurts.